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do not need to be well dressed and have a lot of money to look and be classy. Class is what comes from within. It is your actions, reactions, facial expressions, the ability to be a compliment, decline an invitation, and generally how you cope in life. I met many women who are arrogant, rough around the edges, and often just really rude, and not 'lady-like'. On the other hand I had the pleasure to meet many women who have polite, courteous, helpful as respect for others, are pleasant facial expressions and certainly know how to accept compliments. This rare breed of women just decide to be in style, with or without money. In my observations and personal education that's what I learned ...
1 Smile! Smiling creates a more comfortable environment for those around you and keep your spirits too much, no matter what life throws at you every day.
2 Learn how to be a compliment. Too many women shrug off someone else's well-intentioned comments or on their achievements, work, beauty, wardrobe, home and the list goes on. They do this with "it's no big deal" response and attitude. You work hard every day and commit yourself just like Hollywood celebrities do, but they accepted his Oscar and Emmy awards for all their dedication and accomplishments. Smile, it's polite to say thank you and just feel good about themselves.
3 Nobody likes a fishwife. If you have not heard the phrase, I'll fill you in. fishwife is a woman who cries for her husband to dinner, screams at her kids and rants until everyone and everything is fine. It is so unappealing. Replace anger, yelling and anger with tenderness and grace. Calmly ask your kids, spouse or friend to do something for you in a polite tone. I'm not suggesting you fake who you are, but simply move in a direction that exudes class and respect for those around you.
4 Answer the phone as you would if you called Hunch. Be polite and simply say: "Hello, Jane Smith says." You have greeted people at the other end and let them know who's talking. I never wanted to hear, "Hello!" in a bitter tone, or one that reeks "you are called at a bad time, what do you want?" If it is indeed a bad time, just do not answer the phone. Let the machine get the call back at a convenient time. You may be required to say something that would not otherwise, and will probably regret it later.
5 Prost is a no-no. Classy women do not swear and sound like a drunken sailor, simply does not work. They use creative vocabulary or mitigate their thought something terrible. Example: Someone breaks in the parking lot and almost caused a big accident. Do not stick your head out the window and say, "What *% $ # are you thinking?" and give them the finger, but keep to themselves. No matter how crazy or how you feel in a panic, do not lose your temper and cursing. Not only is it not like a lady (or man as simply rude) if you had your kids in the car they are likely to recur.
6 Do not drunk. Celebrating with friends and family with a few glasses of wine is not a sin, if you can handle it. Getting drunk at a party then dancing on the table singing is just so trashy. You will not like what people say about you and what you remember later. Just not worth it! Classy women know your limits, drink in them and when they reach their limit they drink sparkling water, soda water with lime and the like to interfere in the crowd, but not the cause of the accident on the way home.
7 Your wardrobe items. You do not need a lot of money, or in any case be a classy woman. Just always take pride in what we do not have, put on your best face and go into the world. If your clothes hanging threads and stains would not come out and tear the seam of his trousers is obvious that you lack the pride that others take. Always wear clean clothes, freshly pressed without threads, rips, stains or fading. Rather neatly put together clothes that you know looks good and throw it on several grounds:. Mascara, lipstick (or gloss), and a little blush
8 Speaks volumes. No need to speak in slang. Learn the English language correctly and try your best to use their best vocabulary daily. You have been given a brain and education, let your words radiate that too. Form words in full. Accent or no accent people want to understand what they are saying. Speak clearly and form of the word completely.
9 Turning down the request. There are moments in life where we are simply too tired, not interested or do not have the financial resources necessary to participate in the upcoming event, or in someone's request. Most women just say ok, I'll do it or I'll be there, because they do not want to be perceived as rude. There is nothing wrong with taking time for yourself, just make sure to express it the right way. Example: Your grandmother asks you some things it has stored for you as she knows she is moving into a nursing home soon, and you simply do not have room and do not like them anyway. Simply say, "Grandma, these are definitely some neat treasures. I would, but I just can not." It leaves no room for debate about how big your apartment, or whatever flavor you have. If asked again, repeat the same words. "I would, but I just can not ".
10 Walk proudly. Whether you are entering or leaving the room, grabbed some quick groceries or pumping gas, keep your head up high. I'm not joking. If you hold your head high, shoulders back, lengthen your spine and tuck tummy in. Gracefully walk to your destination with the same goal. Classy women always appear as if they had just arrived from Paris in and are only in town for two days to give you grace with his presence. You have accomplished a lot today. You must show a strong, confident and proud. You'll be surprised how much better you feel about yourself and how much will be the head.
11 Nail nails. There is nothing worse than someone with dirty fingernails. That says a lot about your health and personal hygiene and how much they care about themselves. Yellowing, chipped and ragged nails at any length are not good. People see your face and hands, no matter how the rest of you is covered up. Keep your nails short, neatly kept length. Seeing the whites of the nail is important, so would you! Invest in a pair of nail clippers and keep them cut regularly. Keep a file on hand in the bag to break the nails. Avoid leaving a yellow nails get nail polish for your time, use baking soda and lemon juice, and soak them if you have this problem. Once filed, and provide basic skin, use 2 coats of neutral polish as a natural pale pink. My favorite is Mademoiselle by Essie. Use finish to prevent chipping and off you go. French manicure is very elegant, if you can afford to have it done professionally. Fortunately, after painting nails 20 years I have mastered the art of doing your perfect French manicure. If you have dark nails are chipping better to take it off completely and wear nothing or a coat of clear or neutral, then go out like that je.Isto true for toe nail and pedicure. Toes will hold polish for 3-4x as much, so you can leave it longer and do some spot touch ups when needed.
12 Be clean and hygienic. There are too many women making time for TV, shopping, cleaning and everything under the sun, but that does not properly care for themselves. Classy women are not dirty. They do not sleep with all my makeup on at night and brush and floss regularly, and take care of your health. First, showering daily is required. Being clean is not for everyone you smell, but it is so you can feel clean and fresh and ready to give your best. Secondly, you should wash your hair at least every other day. If you are leaving it longer than that your hair will start to get greasy and clumpy looking (usually on the back of the head where it does not look). I see it all the time in the workplace, well-dressed woman and her makeup looks pretty, but her hair is dirty, it ruins the whole thing. There are some times where you can not prevent such woke up late, no worries, just wear your hair so that it is less noticeable.
